15 Traits in Men Women Love
Atualizado: 25 de Jul de 2020
A lot of women love when a man takes the time to invest in his appearance. When you invest in your appearance, it shows a woman that you have class, and also that you like nice things in life. This is not to say this woman will use you or she just wants you for money, but it’s to say that she is attracted to something that you can offer her. Wearing a suit does not mean that you are rich, and you will attract gold-diggers but it does say that you got your “stuff” together! If it’s not a suit make sure you keep up and express fashion as a well put together man.
Have a passion:
When a woman sees that she is not your priority but still a priority in your life, then this helps with the attraction phase. Like mentioned before, you don’t have to be rich. You have to have a passion. When you voice your passion with a woman, it can open up some personal deep level conversations with her which women are attracted to emotionally.
Walk with confidence:
This means stand straight up. Chin up, shoulders back, chest out, tuck your stomach in, make eye contact and smile. This gives you a sense of stability and pride in others. All these attributes go a long way, especially with first impressions.
Energy is how you become attractive to women and people! Women are addicted to a man that has a positive outlook on life. It shows that you have no attachment to drama and you will do what it takes to have a happy life. It also shows that you have done a lot of personal work and people want in. It’s like an unsolved mystery that everyone wants. Mastering this will give you so much more control.
Pay attention to your conversations:
What do you talk about? Don’t talk about your flaws or your down points. Talk about positive things in life and not the ex-girlfriend that cheated on you. Start this new one with a clean slate and don’t downplay your qualities when attracting a woman.
Call the shots:
If you want to take her out on a date, call a date a date! Call her when you say you will. Tell her you are busy today but free tomorrow would you like to go get a drink together at 7 pm. Call the shots to show your busy, but also show that you are making time for her.
Set boundaries and show value:
Never be submissive to your values in hopes to compliment hers. Set boundaries on what is healthy and what is not and if you see red flags spot them out right away so she knows what you will and will not tolerate. A lot of men think this will push women away but it does the exact opposite.
Have a lasting impact:
You may think that by just showing up they will attract a woman. But you aren’t trying to make a lasting impression. Whether you’re just trying to play it safe, be nice, or being lazy, then stop it! This is all wrong. Strive to impact her all the time. This means keeping up with witty banter, saying “no” if you don’t want to do something or don’t agree. Also, don’t be afraid to crack a joke from time to time and challenge her to show up for you.
Make her laugh:
Women love to find a man that can make them laugh. This does not mean that you have to say a knock-knock joke, but it does mean that you have to let your personality shine through. Be witty and show her humor. Make fun of her in a respectful light banter way.
Women find a sense of curiosity in a dangerous or “rebel” type man. If a woman is asking you a complicated question that you don’t want to answer just smile and wink. This isn’t up for debate. Challenge yourself to solve things when it’s the right time and not only on her watch. Also, try something that you want to do like be spontaneous. Do something that scares you and invites her with you next time.
Master your “swag”:
Control your conversations. Moments of silence show your confidence. Don’t always talk too much or try to over speak her. Just be calm and relaxed around her. Once you do this, you can use your “swag” to charm her by being relaxed and confident within your own self.
Be social and busy:
Women like to know you are the prize but also that you are making time for her. Once she sees that you are making time for her but also busy she will feel appreciated and this draws attraction.
Remember to pay attention to the things she says so you can surprise her with something thoughtful. Generosity is a form of attraction when it isn’t used often. You don’t want to shower her with compliments and tell her she’s beautiful but you want to remember the things that she likes and by you delivering this you score substantial attraction points! Find out her favorites dishes, activities, hobbies and recreate these on a date.
Make the first move:
It’s a win-win when you make the first move. Not only are you trying to take control of the situation but you’re getting your answer no matter what. Most of the time if you gage it correctly she won’t end up denying you.